THE RED THREAD

An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstance.The thread may stretch or tangle, but will never break. - Chinese proverb

Our Miracle of Mary Katherine Businda

Hello Everyone!


Robert & Ronda Businda here; This blogspot is designed to share with friends, family and hey -maybe even a stranger about the miracle God has performed in our lives, and that is the miracle of our daughter, MARY KATHERINE BUSINDA!


You will have the opportunity to find out who WE are, what we're all about, how this miracle came to be and share in the joys and adventures the past two years!


Not flesh of my flesh

Nor bone of my bone,

But still miraculously

My own.

Never forget

For a single minute:

You didn't grow under my heart

But in it.

--Fleur Conkling Heyliger


Wednesday, January 13, 2010

"HAPPY DAY" !!!!


First of all, yesterday January 12 was Mary’s 4th birthday!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY GIRL!!!! Wow….she IS growing up FAST!


       Well, Mary’s surgery has been pushed back to February 4th because the anesthesiologist is not comfortable with doing Mary’s surgery in an out-patient facility due to her heart history. We all agree that even though her heart is totally rockin’, it would be wise to have the surgery done in an OR – in the rare case there was a complication, our ‘lil Momo would be exactly where she needs to be and we wouldn’t have an additional worry about any transport or anything. Rock on, “Sleep Doctor” and thank you, God for all of the wise health care providers you have placed in Mary’s path!!
   Mary’s hearing impaired educator also gave a very remarkable report on Mary’s birthday, stating how ‘extra cute’ Mary was in talking and imitating many 2-4 word utterances. That’s HUGE encouragement to us in regards to how far Mary’s language skills have come along. There is still a very strong sense of urgency within this news as she is at such a critical language period, that Deanna (Mary’s hearing impaired educator) stresses that we need to get as much language stimulation and development as we can “before she passes this stage”!!!! Deanna also informed us that even with a cochlear implant, it will be a year or more before she can use it fully to its capacity so the sign language will remain a helpful tool throughout her life. In the meantime, she requires FOCUSED, natural language stimulation to help her reach her potential.

    I had registered for school this month to continue my undergraduate degree but it’s a no-brainer that Mary’s educational needs far outweighs Mama’s desires so school for me is on the back burner with no regrets. Robert & I give thanks to God that He has provided for us enough that I will be scaling back my hours at work in order to do our part as parents and help her along this process. Who knows – it may turn out that once her tubes are in, tonsils & adenoids out and the CI is in that I might just have a certification in sign language!!! Win-win situation, especially for Mary as we notice that Mary signs more when her hearing aids are out and I’m so glad I’ve kept up with it because it’s been a great form of communication on that level! I’m also very certain it will come in handy as Mary recovers from her surgery in February!
                   This month is almost halfway over, things change so fast and we are excited to see God’s hand move so quickly and efficiently - not only in Mary’s life but ours! Enjoy the birthday pictures. All day long Mary kept saying, “Happy Day” and man, it sure was!!!!



Monday, January 4, 2010

And.....OUT they go!

Well, it's official. The ENT looked into Mary's ears and saw the fluid that has not resolved in 3 months! Her tonsils have started to give her really bad breath and she's been pulling out the hearing aids so - enough is enough!
January 20th, the PE tubes go in, tonsils and adenoids come out! Please pray that Mary (in spite of the pain she will be in) will stay hydrated and drink her fluids, that she will not have any bleeding episodes and that - she will have a speedy recovery!!!!
Will re-schedule the cochlear implant consult for February......hmmmm.....I have a feeling spring break in March might involve another procedure!!!! Hitting the ground of the New Year running like crazy already - here we go!